Cafe divides opinion after publicly shaming mum who left toddlers mess behind
A cafe faced backlash for “publicly shaming” a mum for not tidying up after her toddler.
On Facebook, Corby's Tea Room uploaded pictures of the table where the mother and child had been sitting.
A staff member at the Kent-based cafe captioned the image: "Whilst we welcome mums and toddlers, what we don’t welcome is a mess left like this with no attempt to help tidy or offer of apology and then when challenged to say weakly, 'I left a tip last time'."
The post didn’t go down well with everyone – including the diner’s sister who hit back on social media.
According to the Mirror, she screenshotted the post and responded: "Absolutely disgusting behaviour from a so-called business.
"As if young mothers don't have it hard enough without your sad attempt to publicly shame them not only online but in your tearoom.”
The diner’s sibling continued: "Didn't seem to have a problem until after they had paid and tipped you.
"Personally, I think by the fact you deleted your post you are admitting perhaps getting a dustpan and brush isn't such a hard task.
"But don't worry, even though you told my sister and her 11-month-old baby they were never allowed in your tearoom again, I doubt they'd want to after such a disgusting display of unprofessional behaviour."
Her complaint has since sparked a debate, with commenters divided about who is in the wrong.
One person said: "Would have taken 30 seconds for the mum to pick that up. Hardly rude of the staff is it."
Another pointed out: "That is a mess. Would you leave a friend's place like that? Highly doubt it."
Others came to the mother's defence saying: "That mess genuinely isn't bad for a young child eating? I'm astounded they'd publicly shame like this.
"It must be annoying but it's part of catering for young children. Don't get me wrong, some people take the **** and absolutely trash the place.
"But do they expect every single person without a child to fully clean their area before leaving too?
"If so, maybe the post should say all people need to clean up before they leave."
But the idea that messy customers would have to clean up after themselves was not welcomed by all.
One person said: "I worked in a cafe years ago. Always had mess like this but what else do they expect?
"Next they will be moaning people didn't wash up their plate. Seriously, what a joke."
Paul Crush, the owner of Corby's Tea Room in Ramsgate, has since apologised for offending people and particularly young parents.
But, he defended himself, saying the post had "twisted" what had happened, accusing them of posting "outlandish comments and untruths".
Mr Crush said: "The ladies – and let’s be clear, I would have posted a similar message regardless of who left such a mess and contrary to what is being said, this was not aimed at just young mums – did not even attempt a simple, ‘sorry for the mess’.
"Nor did they, as they claim, tip but were happy to just walk out and leave it.
"We firmly believe hospitality is there to serve all customers and yes, we understand we have to clean up after them, but a simple recognition would be nice.
"Also, for the record, I did not name or shame anyone specifically – my photos did not identify anyone, but were there to demonstrate the mess left by two adults."
He decided to delete the post after people with opposing views started "name-calling" and refused to stop.
Mr Crush said: "We are an old-fashioned, friendly tearoom – check out all the real reviews on various platforms – and we welcome everyone.
"I would like to emphasise that since taking over Corby’s three years ago we have actively introduced more child-friendly menus and facilities, including a baby-changing station.
“In what continues to be a very challenging time to own and run a small independent business, this unnecessary and unfair distraction doesn't help.
"We are sorry if this has offended or alienated some groups, young parents in particular, but come and visit for yourselves and you will see just how welcoming we are."
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