Loving throuple disowned by families for ungodly three-way relationship

A “ throuple ” have revealed that their families disowned them because of their “ungodly” three-way relationship, but they’re planning on having children together anyway.

High school sweethearts Joel Forchue, 24, and Mickey Pagan, 22, from Rhode Island, US, met in 2015 when they started going to school together.

The duo have been together ever since and started their adult lives while in love.

But, Mickey is bisexual and Joel would often joke around with her and say he was going to have “five wives” and “babies everywhere, of every nationality.”

One day, Mickey decided it wasn’t a bad idea and asked if they could find a girlfriend to join their relationship.

In September last year, Joel met Jaida Cutino, 22, on the MeetMe app.

And, as Mickey listened to them chatting she noticed that she had lots in common with Jaida too and the three began talking all together.

Just two months later, on November 16 2020, Mickey asked Jaida to be their girlfriend and not long after that Joel proposed to Mickey.

But, despite being happily in love, both Jaida and Joel have lost contact with family members because of their unconventional life.

Jaida's mother no longer speaks to her and Jaida says she feels like she's been disowned. Joel's mother also stopped talking to him, however he says the younger members of his family have been much more supportive.

Jaida explained: “My family don't agree with it, they say a man is supposed to be with one woman and there's not supposed to be extra partners.

"I used to get really upset and hurt about it because I'm a big family person and there was a point where I was really depressed and unhappy about the situation.

"I still hope one day they'll accept Joel and Mickey but I don't see it moving in that direction.

"Sometimes my family will invite me to a party but tell me to come on my own and that I shouldn't bring the people I love."

People often tell the trio that they are “going to hell”, but they say that they don’t believe this as they attend church and pay before they eat, when they wake up and when they go to bed.

Mickey commented: “Being in a triad is like having two best friends and life partners instead of one.

“We're never alone and there's always someone else to talk to. We don't see our relationship any different and go through life just like everyone else.

"Thankfully my mum is very open and accepting, she says that she has four children now – she always used to call Joel her son and now she calls Jaida her daughter.

"I want people to know that we're all lucky, not just Joel, me and Jaida are lucky too.

"People say we're not godly because of our relationship but we're incredibly close to God and try to be closer and closer every day.

"If one of us gets pregnant, Joel wants to get the other pregnant so we have kids at the same time and can go through the pregnancy together. We haven't got anything planned – but at the same time it's kind of planned."

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Being in a throuple does come with hardships though – many caused by other peoples pre-conceived ideas.

Joel said: "People ask us for advice or a better understanding of a polyamorous relationship but the truth is we don't know because we didn't plan for this.

"The rude comments can be influenced by racism as well. I get called a pimp or people tell me I'm a big daddy or a big man when really there's three of us in the relationship.

"There is no handbook, all polyamorous and throuple relationships are different with different rules.

"It's about what's in front of you and living in the moment – we wanted something and we got it.

"Being in this relationship as a straight man, I've started to understand what people in the LGBT community go through. It helps me be more empathetic and talk to more people about it."

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