I discovered my partner keeps a list of all the girls he’s slept with…and I’m number 50 – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: RECENTLY, I found a list of girls that my partner has been with.

I wasn’t meant to see it but I saw a piece of paper with my name on it and I was curious. I was number 50.

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I accept he has been with other women before he met me, but I can’t get it out of my head.

It’s all I’ve been thinking about. I can’t look at him in the same way.

I’m the last person on the list, which is a relief, but I worry about how I compare with the other women. I’m 23 and my partner is 26.

It’s driving me crazy. I’m angry he brought it with him when we moved in together.

DEIDRE SAYS: You will have to say something or it will eat you up. Say you stumbled across it and wish he hadn’t left it lying around.

But accept he has a past, it is part of the person he is and the person you love.

When you start to feel undermined, remind your-self that you are the one he wants to be with now.

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