I’ve been having mind-blowing sex with my best friend’s gorgeous fiancee – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE:  I’M in love with a woman I can’t have. I’ve now had brilliant sex with her but she is engaged to a friend of mine. He has even asked me to be Best Man at their wedding, which will be agony for me.

He and I were at school together and are now both 32. I was almost married to someone for a while but it didn’t work out. My mate has never been involved with anyone for long enough to get close to getting married — until now.

I was attracted to her the first time he introduced us. She’s 29, very attractive and such fun. We got more and more flirty and suggestive, especially if we got a few moments alone while he wasn’t in the room. I then began to get my hopes up.

On Christmas Eve I knew my friend would be with his family. They live at the other end of the country and he wouldn’t be back until late, so I messaged to be sure his fiancee was home, then I went round to her place with a gift. I’d bought her a very glamorous and expensive velvet bathrobe.

To my shock and delight, as soon as she had unwrapped the robe, she took off her jeans and jumper and put it on right away.

Knowing there was only skimpy underwear on underneath, the sight of her just blew me away. I kissed her and we quickly ended up in bed. It was all my dreams come true.

I couldn’t stay the night because we knew my mate would be back at some point, so I rushed off without talking about him, their engagement or where all this is going. My pal, of course, has no idea what has been going on.

He is happily looking forward to the wedding and making plans for a marital home. They were together all over Christmas while I stayed at home with my parents and sister, but she was all I could think about.

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DEIDRE SAYS: You two have to find an opportunity to talk, then do some serious decision-making.

If she’s still planning on marrying your friend, put a stop to your fling, right now. The longer you let it continue, the more pain you will feel when it ends, as it will have to.

If she has doubts about the wedding, tell her she must deal with them now while there is still time. Are there issues she needs to sort out with her fiancé? Or has she realised he’s the wrong man for her?

If the latter, you should still step back and give her space to end her engagement before anything else happens. It’s unlikely your mate would ever then give his blessing to you having a relationship with her – but at least it wouldn’t be obvious just how shabby your behaviour has been.

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