I’ve been with my husband for 14 years but I can’t bear to have sex with him – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE:  I DON’T know how I feel about my husband any more. I don’t find him attractive now.

I do love him as someone I have shared my life with for 14 years, and as the father of my children, but I am no longer bothered about being intimate with him.

I am only 44 and it seems awful not to have a sex life at all. It is not as though I have met someone else I find attractive, because I haven’t.

This cannot be right at my age. My husband is three years older than me and I doubt whether he wants to live his life without sex.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Day-to-day life can dull our sex drive.

But this may be more about how you feel about you and your life, than your husband.

Tell him you are sad you have drifted apart physically and that you would like to do something about it if he will co-operate.

Suggest you try the ideas in my e-leaflet Saving Your Sex Life.

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