I am a man with no libido – how can I satisfy my partner in bed?
DEAR DEIDRE: MY lady is beautiful and has a big heart but I can’t satisfy her in bed.
I want to give her everything she deserves.
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I am a man of 43 with no libido at all. All my urges have gone. She is 39.
My testosterone levels have been tested and are fine, so it’s a mental issue. Trouble is I cannot figure out what it is.
My ex-wife was the sexual driving force in our marriage. Threesomes were her thing and she cheated on me too.
I am so in love and know my new partner feels the same but I’m scared I’m going to lose her.
DEIDRE SAYS: Keep on telling her you love her. You can satisfy her without needing an erection or feeling desire, though taking the pressure off might help you tune in to feeling arousal.
I reckon your ex-wife’s demands and cheating dented your sexual confidence. Talk it over with a sexual and relationship therapist.
See cosrt.org.uk and my e-leaflet Reviving A Man’s Sex Drive.
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