Scared to tell my friend that I’m falling for her in case she doesn’t feel the same way – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: I AM falling in love with a girl but I am too scared to tell her in case she doesn’t feel the same way about me.

I am 21 and this girl is 19. We met at a party held by a mutual friend. We are becoming closer and closer and we get on really well.

We are spending nearly every night together unless she is working.

I don’t want to tell her how I feel in case she doesn’t feel the same. I think it would ruin our friendship.

But I don’t want to see her with anyone else as I think it would break my heart.

Do I risk telling her or just make sure she is happy? I think the world of her.

DEIDRE SAYS: Our lives involve choices and taking chances. Tell her how you feel. If it is a no from her at least you will know where you stand.

Say that you want the two of you to be friends whatever her response.

My e-leaflet on Learning About Relationships can help.

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